Why people pretend to be your friend
Some people pretend to be your friend because they want something from you.
Please scroll down the page to find out what pretend friends want.
Most friends really are friends. They like you, laugh with you and really care about you.
They will do their very best to help you if you ask them to.
They will like doing the things that you like doing and will enjoy your company.
Friends will NOT say "we are mates you have to..."
Friends will NOT ask you to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable or scared.
Mate Crimes are bad things people do when they pretend to be your friend.
Mate Crime is against the law
What they do or ask you to do can get you in trouble with the police.
Or it could mean the government will stop your benefits.
Mate crime does not start with bullying but it can become bullying.
It starts with people saying they are your friends.
Examples of what might be a Mate Crime
A pretend friend uses your phone until you have very little credit left.
A pretend friend borrows your money and does not pay you back.
A pretend friend uses your computer to look at websites you don't like.
A pretend friend comes to your house and pushes past you to come in and does not leave when you ask them to.
A pretend friend does things in your house that you don't like.
If any of these things happen to you, you have been a victim of crime
Not every crime involves murder, stealing or hitting.
If this is happening to you, please tell someone, please tell the police.
If you are a victim of Mate Crime tell someone
You do not have to put up with it.
If you tell someone you won't get into trouble.
If you tell someone they can help.
You can tell a third party reporting centre
A third party reporting centre is a place you can go to tell someone about a crime, that is not a police station.
Different areas have different third party reporting centres.
The ones in your area could be your day centre or gateway club.
Your local citizens advice bureau.
Your council or the adult social care learning disability team.
If you live in Devon you could also tell Devon Link up on 07808 053992.
If you live in Cornwall you could also tell Cornwall People First on 01736 334857.
If you live in Dorset you could tell Dorset People First on 01305 257 600.
Tell another friend, case worker or family member
If you have been a victim of Mate Crime but you do not feel like you can speak to a stranger about it, you can tell your case worker, another friend or family member.
They can support you to go to the police or phone a helpline.
Or if you do not want to report the crime, they can help you deal with what has happened and help you to stay safe in the future.
Always tell the Police if people say they are your friends but make you feel scared.
Always tell the police if someone is using your home to sell, make or grow drugs in.
For information on how to contact the contact please select this Contact the police link.
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